Being Abused is not a Choice, Being Abusive is

You can’t help what happened, but you can help what happens

Photo by Javier Allegue Barros on Unsplash

I was told by a medium writer recently that I know nothing about abuse. He told me a few other things, but I won’t mention them. Mainly because I know how some people feel about swearing.

He said I didn’t know what it was like to be abused. And if he was abusive to people then it wasn’t his fault…